When You Realize Your Relationships Are Valuable... Then Consider Investing In The Best Investment In The World - With An Unlimited Rate Of Return--- 

"Invest in Yourself."

'1-on-1'
"Family"
or
 'Couples' Sessions are available.

Experience has shown that a 2- 3 hour session is most effective the 1st time we do "The Work" together. After that 1-2 hours per meeting is appropriate.

 For Other Workshops and Program Ideas
Check Me Out At:
http://www.speakermatch.com/profile/DianneSikel/
 

 7 Most Stressful Topics
& Thoughts Are:

 1) "Nobody Loves Me" - Learn How To Create The Loving Relationships You Crave

2)  I need _____ in order to be happy.
 ($$$- Sex -To be understood - other people to notice me - a boyfriend - to have a baby- etc)
  _____ was supposed to make me happy. He/She shouldn't have left me

3)  Parenting & Kids:

 Surviving The Homework Overload- Listening Skills - Bullying-
Your dislike of their friends - "Teachers should ____, The teachers shouldn't ____
"They need to get better grades - My kids should listen to me - They don't appreciate me
They should do their homework - The School should____ -
My child needs to go to college - I am responsible for their happiness"

4)  Relationships-

Marriage is supposed to be ____ . Marriage is a commitment  for life
People have to hate each other to get divorced
I am all alone - I am lonely - I need a partner to be happy
He shouldn't have left me -She shouldn't have cheated on me
I Need More Sex - All He wants is sex
I need more friends - People use me - We should come first - He deserted us
If you really love me... you"ll stay - You won't be sexual with other people - etc

5)  Addictions-

 He/She shouldn't drink-  I am too fat - He is a workaholic
 They shouldn't do drugs - People shouldn't smoke
Cutting myself / over eating / sex - makes me feel better
Alcohol makes me ____
(more fun to be around, Abusive, more sociable, more interesting, relaxed, etc)
People with addictions are weak - Addicts are manipulative -  etc

6)  Work-

 My customers should ___-  My boss is____ - I am underpaid
 I hate this job - The company doesn't___ - I am stuck in this job
I cannot make money doing what I love -  I should be further along by now
People at work should respect me... I NEED a job- Im going to be a bag lady

7)  My Mother is / was _____,

 a pain in the ass - Unloving - Never there for me - Too needy
 Too controlling- Loved my sister more than me - Should have been there for me
 Should spend more time with me-  Should have set a better example for me - etc...

Dianne Sikel
Intimacy Educator, Advocate & Communication Consultant

602-908-4178

What makes me different from a therapist, counselor or spiritual teacher/ Guru is that -

1)  I simply offer to share the process that can help you  uncover the answers you need inside of YOU!!!  You have the answers inside of You for You. You hold the key to your freedom-

I am happy to share my own experiences with The Work & Life, and show you how to do The Work.... but not from a place of superior wisdom, textbook bullshit,  new age mumbo jumbo- and without hypocrisy or judgment
                                      Btw: I am not licensed in Arizona or any other state as a mental/medical health person

2)  I will not pretend to know more than You – about – You

3)  I have done a lot of my own Work... I will share what is working for me in my life- not just textbook stuff.  I am a lover of Reality- not the way other people think things should be
I have my own mentors, coaches and regularly practice what I will share with You.- I call this 'Integrity'

4)   I deal with my own 'shit' and my tool of choice is The Work
 Relationships are very important! I have some tools that can help you create enriching  relationships too!

- I share this process that works for Me because of the POWER of simplicity in It ... I have personally experienced amazing results using this process in my life.

I don't do therapy. I don't diagnose "disorders". I don't do treatment. I am NOT medically trained and am not a "the-rapist"- one who forces labels, diagnoses or theories on you- no pathology- just real conversations...a connection and understanding (A Confidante) 

I am eager to share what I know- and personally use- to help you and others find some peace in your lives and relationships. We may not always be happy, but we can have peace- no matter what life gives us

Nothing you reveal to me will shock, offend or suprise me. No Sugar Coating is necessary....

Dianne Sikel
       Confidante & Communication Consultant
CanWeGetAlong@hotmail.com
602.908.4178

Legal:  I am not licensed in Arizona or any other state as a mental/medical health person I DO NOT diagnose, label or treat issues.....I have taken several certification courses, workshops and trainings focused on Addiction and Substance Abuse Counseling.  I love sharing what I have learned- and what has helped me get through the "junk" I went through.   

Confidante- A Women to whom personal and private matters are disclosed. One who your secrets can be shared with. 

Advocate- One that supports and promotes the interests of another

Intimacy- A feeling or atmosphere of closeness and connection. Honest communication. Not necessarily including sexuality